How to Tell if Your Best Friend Is LGBTQ+

This article was co-authored by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Cheyenne Main. Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University.

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Figuring out someone’s sexuality can be hard, especially if they’re your best friend and you’ve never talked about anything like that before. It can also be uncomfortable if they have a crush on you—or if you have a crush on them. No matter what the situation is, we’ve got all the answers to alleviate any awkwardness and preserve your friendship (or take it to the next level). We’ve interviewed licensed clinical psychologist Kateri Berasi to find the best ways to figure out if your BFF is gay. We’ll also cover how to deal with a crush on them or let them down easily if they have a crush on you.